the messy divorce between chef bobby flay and actress stephanie march just got uglier .
on sunday , the new york post 's page six alleged that the marriage breakup was the result of flay having an affair with an employee , he would know about it .
' ` this specific allegation was in a letter sent from one attorney in this case to the other .
it was written and then leaked specifically to insert this story into the press , and that it led to the breakdown of his marriage to stephanie march .